you really know someone cares about you when they put their pride aside to apologize to you when they've wronged you. what makes me angry is when someone has wronged you and they they are mad at you. for what? i remember when i contacted william after he tried to take advantage of me and for some reason, he had the audacity to ignore me...the be mad at me. sure...i could have apologized to appease him and become friends again but for what? what did i do? why would i apologize for being groped by him? for that reason, we will never speak again. i don't want that to happen ever again with anyone in my life. i think people just need to own up to their faults if they really care about someone. i've apologized plenty of times and always meant it. another problem i had with william was that he was always under the influence of alcohol or weed. i never knew whether to blame his bad attitude on his being high/intoxicated or on his poor character. i think it was both. i did tell him to stop smoking and drinking so much. why? it wasn't because i was judgemental. it was because i cared and if i didn't, i would have never said anything because it just caused conflict anyway.