when i meet someone i like, i don't want to know about them. i want to know them. and i want them to know me. who cares about your favorite color or what you named your dog. what are the things you don't tell anyone? what would your friends say about you? how do you handle tense situations? i need more than just superficial conversation; you can't expect me to open up when you're talking about a new jack white album that came out. you can't expect me to open up when you talk about milkshakes. once you can be vulnerable with me, i can be vulnerable with you if there's trust there.