I'm avoidant. I avoid relationships. I avoid love. I avoid feelings and I avoid getting hurt. Because somehow I just don't see things ending well for anyone involved. Better to cut ties now than to hang yourself by a noose later. I know it pains you. It pains me too. But isn't that what relationships are all about? Why would anyone choose pain if they could avoid it. And why hurt each other by staying when we can help each other by walking away?