something i've come to realize about dating is that if the guy likes you, he want's to know everything about you. what makes you tick. what makes you happy or sad. what are your interests. he wants to know you and he's into what you're into because he's into you. when guys don't want to engage...don't want to get into deep conversations or ask questions, they don't want to be with you. they can make false promises or grandiose statements of love and not really mean it. they don't even know what they want--they want to have the appearance of being in love without really being in love. that's the saddest part about it. they'll always have that empty hole because they'll never let in anyone to fill it and i guess no one really could anyhow.